Wait. I’m Finna be HOW OLD?!

Today is my half-birthday. Yes, I’m one of those people. Since getting into astrology, I use my solar return (birthday) to mark passages of time, observe themes for every year, and (if I’m in the rare planning mood) plot out big moves/decisions. Every quarter season (Capricorn, Aries, and Cancer), I review my birthday notes and … [Read more…]

“Good Girl”

In a conversation with a newlywed friend, he mentioned being received differently as a married man. “How so?” I asked. “Older people especially…have a sense of pride and visibly show how proud they are.” He didn’t tell me anything I didn’t know. The observation stung nonetheless. “As a single person, I find that disheartening,” I … [Read more…]


I don’t know when I stopped desiring touch. There were times, before, with boys. We were in close enough proximity, a few hours post- or pre-sex. The non-touching was odd, though indicative of those relationships. They weren’t feely affairs. Still, I recall the occasional draftiness of intense physical attraction without non-sexual touch. It’s evidence I … [Read more…]